Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Love and Sex Secrets



Love, marriage and Sex Secrets

Oprah Love Expert Reveals 500 Tips To Have More Amazing Sex In Your Relationship… Starting Tonight!



Marriage is exactly as my dad once told me. A life of tremendous joy with hiccups of frustrations  and miscommunications along the way.  He also told me that a happy marriage dose not survive if there is not true love and respect for your spouse. When he told me this none of it really made since to me. After all, I was only in 11th grade and marriage was far off my radar as a priority in my life. Things have since changed and Im so passionate about  having a happy marriage, that I wanted start this blog in hopes to hear what other married couple have to say and what keeps their marriage happy and how they do it. And also want bloggers who are not happy in their marriage to voice their gripes and concerns and maybe get something positive out of reading others discuss the what makes their marriages work and how to stay happy in love year after year.
        There are many many components to a happy marriage and I certainly do not know them all, but  over 9 years of marriage Ive become aware of a few rules that have help me find that harmony in what I think is becoming the perfect marriage.  Like many couples who have been marriage for several years, I believe a complacency develops and without being aware of it, a lack of intimacy and distance begins and sometimes a marriage will become un-fun, for lack of better words.  I absolutely believe there should be a marriage class that can be taken in college. If the basic lessons could be taught to young adults  what to expect and what important steps are needed to make a marriage last and develop would have given me several years of a better marriage. I learned on my own and I read several articles and ebooks along the way. Two in particular was Real Intimacy and  500 Lovemaking Tips and and Sex Secrets .  These ebooks absolutley gave me the insight I need to be a better husband and better lover.  I finally realize what an amazing wife I have and how easy it was to make our relationship filled with a renewed excitement of sensual sexual energy and love.

                                                                               
This ebook below has so many amazing ideas and interesting facts on how to make relationships fun and everlasting. 
I wouldn't recommend it if I hadn't witness its true affects on me and my marriage. 
               
                                                                                 Derek Cooper, blogger


Oprah Love Expert Reveals 500 Tips To Have More Amazing Sex In Your Relationship… Starting Tonight!


You're here because you want to make your sex life exciting. You want to make it hot. Passionate. Mind-blowing. You probably want to find ways to please your mate.
Whether your love life's a little stale and you want to bring back the fire or you just want to make it even hotter you'll find everything you need right here with over…

In five minutes you can have any of these proven secrets working for you even if you're shy or embarrassed and even if you've tried everything but failed miserably…
So if you're ready to add more fire to the bedroom, then keep reading – it may be the most important letter you've ever read…

– Michael Webb
       My name is Michael Webb. And for the last 13 years I've been teaching people how to have fulfilling and successful relationships that last a lifetime.

In fact, media around the world have taken to calling me "The World's Most Romantic Man," "America's Romance Expert," "Mr. Romance," "The Martha Stewart of Romance" and other interesting monikers.

I don't necessarily agree with the titles, but I do aim to be the world's most loving husband to my wife of 17 years, Athena.








 Not to mention I have been featured in media countless times. Every major newspaper in the United States, dozens of magazines and over 500 radio and TV shows such as OprahThe 700 Club and Men Are From Mars / Women Are From Venus, sharing my tips and secrets with millions of viewers worldwide.















10 Ways To Rekindle The Magic In Your Relationship


Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t
have the magic and romance that it once had?

You’re not alone.

Living with the same partner for a long time can
become stable and comfortable, and, as a result,
can also kill the spark that made your relationship
so special in the first place.

Here are some simple, fun and creative ideas to
reignite that magic:

1. SEND THEM A UNIQUE GIFT

Get a piece of paper and some crayons. Draw a
bright childlike picture with a smiley sun and two
stick figures holding hands. Add labels with your
two names pointing to the stick figures. Write ‘I
Love You’ inside a heart. Next get a large formal
envelope. Place your drawing inside and type up a
formal address label of your partner's workplace,
such as:  “For the immediate and urgent attention
of:  Rebecca Jones, Level 20, Collins & Smith
Solicitors, New York.” Mail it to your partner so
they receive it in the middle of a busy day.

2. BECOME KIDS AGAIN

If you are walking by a park, visit the swings and
give your partner a ride. This will often bring
back happy memories from their childhood.

3. FUN WITH WATER

On a hot summer’s day, buy two large water pistols
and take them to the beach with you. Pull them out
and throw one to your partner and then have a huge
water fight.

4. A MASSAGE WITH A TWIST

Buy a small, decorated cardboard box, a sheet of
colored tissue paper, some massage oil and a blank
card. Line the box with the tissue paper. Place the
massage oil in the box and write the following
message on the card: I know a great masseur. For an
appointment call: (Your Phone Number)

5. BRING BACK CHILDHOOD MEMORIES

Contact your partner's family and ask if there was
anything she always wanted when she was a little
girl. For example if she always wanted a porcelain
doll, buy one for her birthday. She will not only
appreciate the gift, but also the fact that you
were thoughtful enough to find out what she always
wanted. You can do this for your man too.

6. STARE AT THE CLOUDS

Drive into the country, find a grassy hill, and lie
with your partner and look up at the clouds.

7. WALK ALONG THE BEACH

Trace out the shape of a large love heart in the
sand. Sit inside the heart and cuddle your partner
as you watch the sun go down.

8. ORGANIZE A PICNIC ON A WARM SUMMER’S NIGHT

Spread a picnic blanket on the ground and get
together some snacks, chocolates and champagne. Lie
down on the blanket with your partner and gaze up
at the stars together.

9. SHOW YOU’RE GRATEFUL FOR YOUR PARTNER

Leave a long-stem rose where your partner will find
it, with a note on it saying: "Thank you for coming
into my life."

10. SPICE UP YOUR LOVEMAKING

Probably the most profound way to rekindle the
romance in your relationship is to spice up your
lovemaking. Surprise your partner with a little
gift after you make love, try a new position, learn
to give your partner a sensual massage before or
after, or just spend some time staring into each
other’s eyes and caressing their bare skin before
making love.

Many people underestimate the affect passionate and
intimate lovemaking has on a relationship. If you
spice it up, chances are you and your partner will
naturally do romantic things for each other. Why?
Because passionate lovemaking connects two people
in a meaningful and unexplainable way that nothing
else can.




500 Lovemaking Tips ­ Book Review

One of the biggest challenges couples in long-term relationships face is trying to keep their lovemaking red, hot and steamy. Early on in a relationship, the passion and newness of your lovemaking is always unforgettable; but, as that initial magic fades, it becomes harder to make things exciting again. 

So is “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets” by acclaimed author Michael Webb the right book to bring back the fire? Here’s my take on it.


The book begins with a general foundation and understanding on lovemaking, briefly discussing topics like bedroom toys, adult films, the importance of romance for lovemaking, and interesting truths about Kama Sutra. It also contains a lubrication guide and 16 fully illustrated lovemaking positions in the back of the book. These are all nice touches, but the main attraction and bulk of the book is the 500+ tips.


I have to say, I really LOVE that you can open the book, pick a page and have between 8 ­ 10 easy-to-read tips ready to inspire or use right away. No need to read through dozens of long-winded paragraphs. Everything is formatted neatly and is very easy on the eyes. This is a big plus when you’re just about to make love spur-of-the-moment and you want some ideas.


So, what about the actual tips themselves?


This book is a treasure chest of ideas. It has 539 tips in total. They range from oral sex tips for both men and women, to games you can play to make foreplay more fun (although I would have loved to see more games). It also has tips to make intercourse feel better and unique, ways to surprise your partner like “coming out of the shower with just a towel and playing with your wife,” and even some cool places to make love that most people would never have thought of. While I didn’t find all the tips exciting (which was expected), I found more than enough that appealed to me.


The tips are all mixed together, which can get a little overwhelming. I recommend you skim through the book a few times rather than trying to read the whole thing in one sitting.


This book also lives up to its promise of not containing any raunchy, degrading, immoral or perverted ideas that so many lovemaking books seem to have. 


In conclusion, while not all the tips in the book amazed me and I would have been nice to see some more ‘games’, it’s still THE most complete book of tips and ideas on improving lovemaking I’ve ever read. Nothing else comes close. All in all, I found it very enjoyable to read and use :) So if you want to make your lovemaking exciting again or even if you just want some tips for more pleasure, then I highly recommend this book for you.